Everyone seems to be at lost when it comes to dealing with all the challenges and problems of this world. As adults we try that which we can afford but most of the times we end up where we started, just revolving around in circles. Sometimes we go to healers and they tell us about our enemies. If they don’t promise us miracles which never happen at the end of the day. Some people are even budgeting at the end of the month and living money aside so that they can consult or get muti to try and remedy their situations. This has become a norm but people fail to see that we are going no where in this struggle. People need to learn and understand the role that is played by ancestors in our lives. We need to get a deeper meaning of the forces that operate around us as human beings no matter where in the world we come from. We also need to grasp the fact that there is a God, who is above us all and he came first, before the existence of the beginning…
When we understand these things, we can then realise that our problems will never go away unless we stand up and come together when it comes to finding solutions. Sometimes I get worried because there is too much to be done in order to get people to get this message. It is going to take an involvement of the whole nation in working together so as to achieve any significant results. People need to understand that we are all the same and share in the same powers that God allows for us to use on this earth. We all go through the same things but it varies with the levels of intensity- depending on our ancestors powers off cause.
As adults when we have problems, we search high and low for solutions with the hope of making sense of the situation we find ourselves in. We seek advice and get professional help where possible…now, Who is going to save the future generations? Who is going to help our children in making the right decisions and taking care of themselves? When all that we are concerned about is saving our skin.
When I talk about our children, I mean the young ones who are clueless about the challenges of this world, How do we empower them so that they can better handle these problems should they encounter tricky situation in the future. There are children who grow up with parents and they can follow on the teachings of their families and this is all good but at times you find that these kids will get out of hand even though the parents are doing all that they can. ..And then there are those kids who are orphans and have no form of a family structure that they can relate to. It is even worse with these young ones because there is no one who is concerned about them when it comes to spiritual matters. No one even knows their background and cultural aspect of their lives and family ties.
Why am I so worried about the children?
Children have no means of understanding the problems that we, as adults face on a daily basis of our lives. Children are supposed to be happy so that they can enjoy their youth. We set rules and try to instil good values and morality to our kids but sometimes they just get out of hand and we fail to understand the reason why.
I believe that it has to start with us parents, to understand that these kids that we have are a gift from above so we need to honour and appreciate such a gift. At times we become strict and lay down strict rules to be followed around the house but this does not work all the time. There are children who get out of hand even when they come from a good family. This leaves parents clueless and hopeless in the end.
When something goes wrong with “our gift” we need to turn to God and ask the right questions. It is important not to blame others or external influence but to look deep down inside and find out what feelings within us does this situation bring about. We need to realise that something is wrong to start with and so we must find out what it is. When we ask the right questions, God will give us the answers.
When a child becomes uncontrollable, it is a good sing of an angry ancestor who is leading that child. As a parent you need to find out who are the guides leading a troublesome child. What I have discovered is that when parents bring such a troublesome child for a reading, the guides always come up and say that they are the ones causing the child to misbehave. They claim to do this so that the parents can get the message that the kids’ guides/ancestors are not happy at all (with the parent off cause). When these ancestors come through they state that since, they are not happy with the family setup and the general conduct of parents when it comes to rituals, they would rather run away and live in a place where no one knows them. These guides usually complain that no one takes notice of them which is the reason why they also go astray and becomes uncontrollable. Now these guides will make a child behave in the same way that they feel. A child will careless about the parents and their rules. A child will get out of hand and choose to spend most of his/her time away from home. This child will then hang around with the wrong crowd and be influenced through peer pressure to do even worse things. At the end of the day, it is the parent who suffers the most out of all this. This makes the parent to worry all the time not knowing what the child may do next. In sever cases a child may leave home and stay in the streets but when you look at the family left at home, you realise that they are normal, good people. Then it makes you wonder why would anyone in their right mind just leave such a place of comfort and go to live in the streets. This also tells us that these people who leave homes are actually sick in one way or the other and they need to be saved spiritually. They need to be understood and then taken care of by their own parents. Parents need to go back to the drawing board and find out what is it that they have neglected to do, for their children to do such shameful things.
When we look at our lives in an honest and open minded way, we can realise that we are also to blame for things that happen in our lives. Somehow we tend to draw situations to ourselves as a result of an angry ancestors that we have.
So our children need to be taken care of by us as adults, by all means. We need to accept that they also have guides in their lives and if those guides are powerful, children may show rebellious signs from an early age. When we see such signs in our kids we need to act fast before the situation gets out of hand. I don’t mind really if people consult with western doctors as well because as a parent you can do everything possible just to save your child. At the same time, I encourage parents to consult with healers and sort out their ancestors as well. This will help in avoiding the relapse roller coaster, that I have seen as a result of consulting with doctors only.
In cases I have dealt with, I have witness a significant change with such children and the parents have become much happier people in their own lives.
Every time you are faced with a problem/major challenge in your life you need to look deep down inside and find out what feelings does this situation arises from you. Does it make you feel pain deep down inside? Does it make you feel hopeless and weak? Do you feel like no one can be able to help you with this one? Do you feel like giving up? This the exact feeling that your spiritual aspect is going through. You need to understand that these feelings come from a deeper place in your soul and they are a direct indication of how your ancestors are feeling. Once you have captured these feelings from within, you can then go ahead and consult with a clear mind of accepting some responsibility from your part in the problems you are having.
Each time you have a problem no matter what it is, try and find the meaning behind it, try and understand what your ancestors are trying to tell you… Once you have unlocked that key, you can then gain the strength to go on and seek help with an open mind. Do not go to healers and ask for muti that will change the behaviour of your child because that may work for a while the relapse will set on, after a while.
Remember that a times a child can be well behaved but their problems could be just ill health that keeps you worried all the time.
Now we come to the area I am most concerned about, the orphans and street kids. We have dealt with the problems of children who have families, now what do we do about those who are already on the streets or the orphans? With these children the situation has already gone out of hand thus they are left homeless, with no parents to take care of them.
As a result an alarming number of these children end up being drawn to the dark side of life. With no one caring enough for them, they tend to go astray and do crime in the end. It is easy for a child who has no one to find some comfort amongst other kids who are also homeless and mischievous. Which is why people are encouraged to adopt these kids and give them a home. This is easier said than done though… When you adopt a child who already has gotten in so deep in the problems of this world you must be willing to do everything you can to try and remedy that situation before you can live in harmony with such a child. This may seem difficult but in the end you will realise that it is possible even if you don’t know the real parent of such a child.
I have learnt that when an orphan comes for a reading and their guides come through, they are not really concerned about us calling them by their real names. A name is something we are given here on earth for social security reasons. When guides come through they want us to accept them and at times they will even state that we wont be able to know who they are but all they want is recognition. So when a child is an orphan and no one knows their real parents, it never a reason for us to neglect them because the guides will always speak up even if you don’t know who they are. These guide are in a stated of remaining anonymous for a reason which is beyond our understanding. What we need to do is open channels of communication to them, accept and acknowledge them in a childs’ life. When you speak to the ancestor you don’t know, you need to tell that: “ I don’t even know who you are but I do recognise the presence of you in this childs’ life and I beg of you to help me with this child of yours. I am giving you a place to stay in my house, my prayer place and in this childs’ life so that you can be happy and bring us good things in our lives” This prayer can be very helpful in accommodating unknown spirits, making them happy in the life of a child you have adopted.
Those of us who are in a position to adopt, we need to encourage and give them support all the way. And those who can offer advice and help, they must also be encourage never to give up because all we are trying to do is create a better tomorrow…We can never give up when we see that things are getting out of hand in the world. These problems affect us all and when we sit and do nothing about it, things will only get worse.
I pray for the day when I will drive down town fearless of that guy standing at the traffic sign, asking for small change. I pray for the day when all our children will not be affected by our own negative energy and end up giving up on life itself.
What we need to get together and achieve as nations is, getting people to be more aware of their spirituality so that we can have happy people, happy nations and more positive energy in the world as a whole. When we take care of the younger generation, we will create a new brand of people who are well rounded in all aspect of life, who can then continue to improve on human relations in our world thus limiting the place of conflicts and fights amongst us all. To achieve all this we need to start small. Start by the person reading this article. Find your passion in life and work on making your dreams come true. Find the power within you and create your own legacy that we will remember you by when you die. Think more positively about the future and the generations to come. Create a place that will be more friendly to our kids and give them the will to move on and do even better in the world. Touch some ones’ life in a positive way today, knowing that you have that power in you to create a better world.
Thank you…
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