Problems in our lives

Remember the time you had so much problems in your life and you thought your life was over.

Remember again when everything had surpassed and you felt like it was a beginning of yet another chapter in the story of your life.

Just compare both these situations and try to distinguish the difference in the way that you felt.

When we have problems in our lives, they present themselves in a way that makes us feel neglected and isolated from those who are happy. It feels like there is a cloud of darkness that is affecting our space. These feelings create anger and hatred within and makes one more bitter and sad.

When things start to go right in your life, you forget about all the bad and negative feelings. You feel like a warrior who has just won the biggest battle of life. The feeling is so strong that you want to go out and share it with others who are still suffering. It feels like you have unlocked the key to success. It gives you a feeling of acceptance and so much confidence from a lesson of life.  Basically you feel a great amount of happiness.

Comparing these two situations you can realise that the only clear difference between the two is the way you felt inside.

The feeling is amazing because when you are in darkness, it feels like the feeling won’t ever go away but once you regain happiness you transform into this powerful creature who is full of confidence and drive.

To be able to transform successfully from negative feelings to positive ones we need to understand the concept of time in everything that we do.

Time

We need to understand that there is time for everything. We also need to know that, what’simportant is what we do with time in order to convert our lives from hardship to victory and happiness.

What we do with time is determined by our beliefs. Our beliefs are mostly influenced by our upbringing and social tendencies. Our culture also plays an important role in the way that we live.

Some people will use their time of turmoil, trying to find a solution for their problems by doing all sort of things.

Some people will turn to God and pray, others go to traditional healers when others will just sit and hope the problem will go away.

There are people who will do anything to get themselves out of a bad situation and this shows desperation.

When your life is engulfed with problems that you cannot explain, its important to take time and understand that everything happens for a reason. Take time to find that reason and make sure that your life makes some form of sense. We have a tendency to say that because there are problems in my life it doesn’t make sense because other people are having it easy. This approach is a total waste of your time.

The minute you encounter problems, you need to take time immediately to make sense of the situation. Stop asking questions like “why me, or what have I done”.

The sooner you begin to own up to your problems the sooner you get to finding a solution.

The reason why it takes so long for some of us to get out of problems is because we lack the faith and understanding, of the way that the universe works around us. Its’ important for people to understand that there are no short cuts and there are certain things that one has to go through at some stage in their lives and that is inevitable.

An advisable  approach to our problems is to say, “What am I supposed to do to get myself our of this situation” instead of saying, “ I’m looking for someone who can help me get rid of the situation I find myself in”

It is about time that we changed the way we tackle problems in our lives. Looking back we realise that people dealt with problems in the same way and some of us even today they say that they can’t change from the way their ancestors dealt with things and yet the problems are still with us and getting worse.

We cannot continue to do one and the same thing over and over again if it doesn’t work.

Find out why it is not working…

Find out what is it that we can change so as to achieve positive results from what ever we do…

Initiate change and believe in yourself…

Change is inevitable………………………………..

Freedom.

Comments

[Nobako Msutu]

I love this atticle it just speaks to me at this point in my life,iam in so much debt i don't even know what to do.My personal life is also a mess,i don't like my job either.I was told in
September last year by a prophet that i have a calling and by a few others after that,i need to get my life together so that i can do what my ancestors want and maybe that will set me
free


 

[Toba]

The first step is to accept the power of God to work through you. Tell yourself that God has allowed you to be affected by these circumstances that is why you are going through this experience.
Secondly you must choose to believe in yourself and understand that you have powers that need to be accepted and appreciated.


Find someone to tell you which ancestors are in your life and then make a prayer place in your home where you will pray and have some peace and quite. Ask for guidance from the Lord and you will
be given your purpose in life.


Even if you choose to go to thwasa its your choice and an option , but I'd rather you wait for the powers to guide you first.acceptance and patience is the key.


Pls read these articles" we all have ancestors, how does the dead communicate, liyini idlozi.