I have already mentioned that all of us have guardian angels in our lives, guarding and protecting us all the time. It doesn’t really matter who you think your guardian angel is, the fact of the matter is that we all have one or more guides in our lives.
When a woman gets pregnant, it is her own guides who allows for her to conceive in the first place. Her guides look after her and protect her together with the unborn baby until she gives birth. It is only at birth that the child gets his/her own guides and this depends on who is already on the ‘other side’ waiting for the child during the time of birth. Our grandparents are supposed to be our guides from the time we are born, but if they are still alive at this point, our great grand parents take up this role. As soon as our grandparents pass on they then take over from their own parents in the role of guiding us.
No one is really sure of what happens after death. The only part we know of is what ancestors and guides have come back to tell us. The reason why they tell us these things is to try and make our lives easy, here on earth so that we can avoid the transitional problems when we die. Earlier on I mentioned something about the ancestors being attached to who and what they were on earth and I have seen this playing a major role in someone being guided by such guides.
An example can be of a child who is guided by a grandfather. You will find that the parents may always that the child reminds them of the late grandfather. If that grandfather to this child was somebody strict, straightforward and may be even loud spoken this child may also show all of these qualities. In a case where a girl-child is guided by a grandfather meaning a male guide, this child might show signs of masculinity, being tomboyish and an overachiever as though as she is trying to prove a point of some kind.
In a case where a male person is guided by a grandmother or any other female guide for that matter, you will find that this male tends to have a very soft spot especially when it comes to the fairer sex such that you will find people saying this man is in touch with his female side or even call him a ‘softie’ If you look at all the successful people and celebrities you would realize that, they all have guides who were powerful and successful while they were still alive. If your guide was somebody powerful and had some position of some sort or influence in the community, obviously this guide will come back and guide you in a way that will make push you to progress and live more like the way they did.
Let me make an example of a guide who was a soldier and a commander while he was still alive. When this person comes back to guide you, he is going to guide you in such a way that you also become prominent, forceful and in charge in whatever you are doing. This guide can never let you down or leave you to suffer with the problems of these world. With a guide like this you are bound to be energetic and formal such that people will notice these qualities in you. Even during casual conversations or day to day living, it will be obvious in you as to what sort of a guide you have. Once one has studied the world of guides and spirits, it becomes very easy to tell what sort of a guide a person has simple by spending a few minutes with them.
I think it is very important for everybody to be aware to be aware of their own guides as they play a major role in our lives. They make us who we are and determine the way we live our lives, whether we are aware of this or not. Once you know who your guides are, you will begin to see their traces in you and then start to live in harmony by embracing them into your life. Mostly we have more than one guide in our lives, reason being they come from both our mothers’ and fathers’ side. If you go for a reading and find out that you have guides from only one side of the family, it doesn’t mean that the ones from the other side are not there. It only means that they are there but have no problems with you at that time. When you go for a reading the guides that come through first are the ones causing problems in your life and these may not necessarily be your leading guides. The ones that have no problem at that time may not come through at all because the main reason of doing a reading is to find out which one of your guides have a problem.
The guides in our lives shape our lives and determine our future and the reasons for doing so come from our past –the ancestors lives.
As a teenager, I always felt that I didn’t live my life to the fullest. I didn’t have a chance to go to the best schools because our political situation at that time and I knew that my dream of becoming a doctor was fading away. It was even worse when I failed my matric but I refused to go back to school. I wrote privately, studied on my own and passed. When I finally got my matric my two sisters before me were already studying at tertiary level so I had to do with what we could afford at the time. I then studied clothing design but I couldn’t get a diploma because it would have meant leaving home and going to a college which was about 700 kilometers away. Again we couldn’t afford this so I had to once again change careers into something we could afford. I then went to do a Dental nursing course at a Technikon simple because it was just a year course and in the end I would get to work in the hospital environment and get to help people. Well, I did get a job at a hospital after finishing that course, as I worked as a dental nurse but then I had to quit after just about two years because I wasn’t satisfied. Firstly I was the only one working at a dental clinic in a small hospital at a rural area about 300 kilometers from home. They had promised to give me a certificate authorizing me to extract teeth but failed to do so for almost two years so I felt that they were abusing my services while I was not being paid enough. I also left because it was so far away from home, I couldn’t even afford to save some money and I had a baby on the way. I didn’t want to raise my child in that kind of environment. All of this made me dissatisfied with life in general. It made me feel like I wasn’t taken seriously, as if my life wasn’t catered for on this earth.
I felt like life was brushing me aside with every opportunity that could take my life forward. It was time to grow up, find the powers inside of me and fend for myself.
After some odd jobs, I managed to get a job in the service industry. I knew this was the time to prove to myself what I was capable of. It was something new to me but I enjoyed it so much and I was excited because it was at an International convention center, where I would later get a chance to serve leaders from all over the world. My highlights were serving people like Madiba, Thabo Mbeki, Fidel Castro, Jacob Zuma, and King Mswati of Swaziland just to mention a few.
Within a short while I got a supervisory position but after another year, I felt I needed a job that would pay me more so I started looking for a job. It was then that I joined the casino industry as they opened the first casino in my province. I must have been very impressive during my interview as I landed myself a supervisory position . To me, this was a milestone and I felt like I had done it once again, when everyone else had to start at an entry level I managed to come and supervise them from the word go.
I enjoyed my work so much and after a year I got myself my first car. To years later there was another casino opening so I moved on to greener pastures. Everything went well, I upgraded my car, I was on the move. A year later I was promoted to a managerial position and these were the good times. Once again I had done it, when there were people who had been supervisors for nine to eleven years but they were still supervisors, and I had only three years behind me but there I was managing them. Things were happening in my life and once again I upgraded my car and this time I got a new one.
Throughout all of this time especially from my teenage hood, I knew about the ancestors and did the prayers at home but I knew nothing about my own personal guides. While I was going through all of my successes, I also did the prayers to thank the ancestors but the one thing I didn’t know was that I had powerful guides and I was supposed to be a healer. The next thing I had planned on doing was to get married. I cannot say that I was madly in love with the guy, he was just okay for me and today I thank God it didn’t work out. I had a lot of reasons to marry the guy besides love as such. The father of my child had died five years prior to that so in my mind I thought that I was never going to love anybody else or feel for anyone else the way I felt for him. So I decided to settle for what was in front of me. When my boyfriend died, my daughter was just about to turn three years old. He passed away in a freak car accident at around the time when we were planning to move in together.
I wanted to move on with life so I agreed to marry this guy. At about that time my guides decided to ‘rise up’ and let their presence. Something remarkable about the day they first made contact was that my great great grand mother came through first. This is the same gran who had powers and no one took her seriously in my family and she is believed to be a France origin. As she came through she entered my body and started voicing her feelings through me. She was very angry at my father for having not recognized her in my life. Later on I were to realize that she was also angry at all the males in my family as all the sins of the fathers has fallen upon them.
I was confused at first because it was like she was talking about my own life, but she then explained that she was re-living her life through me so whatever she went through in life she was bringing it back in my own life. She was angry that no one accepted, recognized or had taken care of her and her powers while she was still alive. The first thing she asked was why was she taken as if she is unimportant in the family. This brought her a lot of anger and she asked for the incense to be burnt. She demanded some answers since she felt that she also played a crucial role in the family. She complained about being brushed aside all the time. The situation was intense until they burnt the incense for me, then she became greatful and told us that she was and always will be the mother of all our powers in the family.
In all of the things she mentioned, it was like she was at a story of my life. She even touched on the pains in my life including the loss of my boyfriend and all the other frustrations I had at home. I began to understand that she was with me all the time, experiencing all the things I went through in my life. On the same breath she took blame for having let me go through all of this hardship in my life.
The anger she had towards my father made me understand my own relationship with him. My father and I don’t get along very well, ever since my teenage years but during that time it became even worse. I didn’t realize it at first but looking back, it makes so much sense now. When I was younger, I wasn’t rebellious as such but I had a problem at times with the way he ran things at home. I always felt that he wasn’t open enough with us as kids, in terms of sitting us down and letting us know where we went wrong. I didn’t like the way hw went behind us to talk to my mother about the things he didn’t like. It made me feel like he didn’t care enough. This caused a gab than began to grow in our relationship. It took me a while to notice this gap because when I was younger we use to be pretty close.
As time went on I would confront him with my problems but mostly of the time he would just listen and then maybe give the answer to my mom.
When I look back at this now, I can see that he was just being insecure and somehow intimidated by us. He is the kind of person who will leave a problem to sort itself out. I always felt that he was holding me back in everything that I wanted to do because he would always panic and tell you to wait. Well, I am happy because today I have a better understanding of what is going on him with and our
When I started consulting I did a reading for him and I discover that he has a female guide leading him so this is bound to make him insecure and always feel victimized amongst females who are lead by male guardian angels. My second guide who came through during that first contact with the guides was my great great grandfather, the one who was a king. He told us that he is also leading with my grandmother but because he was a king he takes a back seat and let the others work for him. He said something to the extent of wanting to rule once again and be as powerful as he had been. He was not angry at all with my father or anybody else. He just gave instructions on how to do his work of healing people. He said that he was in charge of all the work I were to do as a healer but he would use my grandmother’s powers as it was time to fully embrace her into the family. He briefly stressed that he wanted people to respect and worship him and that in the end he would thank us all properly if his work is done accordingly.
This guide made me look deep into my life and understand where I get all of my perseverance from and where I get the power to lead and guide others. He made me understand why it is easy for me to gain respect and command it where it is lacking. It also made me realize why I have so much love for all the people in the world. All of this made me realize that my father had every reason to feel insecure around me. I am sure that he somehow feels that I am trying to take his place in the family. In a way I do feel sorry for my dad about his insecurities but now that we understand so much on the subject, it should be easy to mend our ways. Well, the answer is easy, like I always advise my clients, it is only a matter of accepting one another’s guides, recognizing and embracing them in a prayer then you have a harmonious relationship.
There are a lot of other guides which are in my life since I am a practicing healer but I thought I mention just a few especially the leading ones. Most of my guides came through that very same day one after another, saying that they are in support of the work to heal people and they want to be included in all our prayers. Lastly I would like to mention the , most amazing guide I have, which is my brother after me, who was still born. This guide is amazing and one would think that he died at birth so he has no powers and that would be misleading. All of my guides work together but when he comes through he does wonders for me. While I was still learning to be healer he would come in my visions and help me with the training. Some of the things he has done for me are still kept under wraps but in due time, it will all be revealed. Having him in my life has explained the love I always had for kids. Ever since I was young I had always loved babies so much and I know the feeling is mutual. I remember when I had my baby, it was like a dream come true. For some reason I was terrified that may be I wasn’t going to be able to have my kids and when the doctor told me I was pregnant, I said. ‘Yes”! That was amazing.
So we all have guides, helping and protesting us but mostly they make us who we are. Let us all pray to our guides, embrace and accept them. The next time you say a Lords’ prayer remember your guides are there ready to take your messages through.
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