When we talk about ancestors people immediately jump into conclusions and think of all the hearsay and unfounded facts and myth on the subject. This is because people who were involved in doing ancestral rituals in the past have not been upfront and open about it. There is a lot of information out there about ancestors but most of it is not true and it is misleading.
In the past people were not allowed to share or even speak about what happens when we are doing ancestral rituals. This has made the subject to be more complicated and a mystery, to a lot of people, leading others to jump into conclusions, becoming judgmental or paranoid when it comes to the subject. Some people have no clear knowledge of the ancestors and rituals because healers in the past did not want to share their work with their patients. They did this because they supposedly were afraid of disclosing “secrets of the trade”. It is this attitude that has sunk the ancestry field deep into darkness. Another reason why healers did not share so much was simply because of their ignorance and or lack of education as we know that most of the healers in the past did not have much of schooling. Most of the healers would leave school early or not even get a chance to attend school thus leaving them in the dark when it comes to ways and means of growing in the field and empowering themselves and others people out there.
There are healers, even today who are not too keen on answering questions about how they work or how they got their powers to start with. When one starts to probe deep into the subject and ask for reason you are told not to ask too much because some information about ancestry is the secret of the trade.
In the past healers, would just tell you what to do and not tell you exactly why you have to do it. They would go on to say that asking too many questions could sabotage the whole healing process, leading the patients to do rituals that they didn’t even understand with the hope that it would help them with their problems.
The other reason why the healers kept some information to themselves was because when the western religion came to our country, ancestry rituals were sidelined as something evil and backwards. This lead people to believing that doing ancestral rituals was not right and against the will of God. Most people turned into Christianity and those who remained were outcast until just recently when the church became more lenient when it comes to people and their culture.
Not talking openly about ancestors and educating people what ancestors really are has opened a door for unscrupulous healers to take advantage of the helpless, desperate and unsuspecting people who come to them for help.
We are living in the times when the studies are leading us in discovering and uncovering so many things about our lives. Studying is used to predict the future and to separate the facts from myths. It paves the way forward for the future with its discoveries, while looking at the history of the earth / world. Through sociology we look at human society, its development, its institutions and its problems. When we turn to anthropology we look at the study of human kind, especially that of societies and its cultures. We then talk about study psychology to know more about the human mind, its workings and especially the behavioral effects thereof including mental characteristics. It then puzzles me how we forget to include our ancestry into all of these forms studies, discoveries and science.
I know that science is more of a study of a physical world where we observe experiments and results thereof but on the same note I would like to say that ancestral rituals have also proven to have substantial results in healing people with difficulties be it in the physical form or on the emotional level.
May be we need to link ancestry and its rituals to scientology which focuses more on the seeking of self-knowledge and spiritual fulfillment but either way, ancestry also need some form of examination and deep study and understanding that can render it a science in itself.
Once again, I am going to blame this on the lack of knowledge and the will to empower others on the subject matter because ancestry is also a bigger part of science and its discoveries than one can ever imagine…
It is about time we started talking openly about ancestors, what we mean by ancestors, what they are and what they are not.
Christian religion came into our country and turned people away from ancestral rituals thus taking them away from the only spiritual link that our people had with God. It is not true that our people did not believe in God before Christianity. People always knew that there was God almighty, who was beyond human understand and was responsible for human life. People had their own form of a God and they had their own prayers that included ancestral rituals in them. When we accept, honor and acknowledge our ancestors, it does not mean that they take the place of God. It only means that they act as a passage way to our God almighty. They are our guardian angels who help guide and protect us once they are with God.
It also not true that people call upon the dead and try to wake them up so that they can praise them. This is just a myth which is spread by those who are still in the dark when it comes to ancestry. People need to know that ancestral powers are there and they exist whether one wants to admit to this fact or not. Ancestors come through and touch the lives of people in one way or the other, and then people start to listen and respond to the needs of their ancestors. No one wakes up and decide to become a healer out of the blue. When one becomes a healer we say that they are answering a “calling” because of this fact.
All healers are called to this field while they are living normal lives and trying to get on with life. Something happens in their lives that points to the direction of answering a calling and then they start to “listen” and then answer a calling. Some people are against this as they say that people are disturbing the “dead”. I like to differ because I am a living proof that it is not until the powers “touch” your life in some way or the other, that you turn and start to do or follow the calling.
I was living my life normally, having set goals and visions for my own future when I was called to become a spiritual medium. Yes, I had been doing ancestral prayers before because it is something that was done in my house but this does not mean that I had planned to grow up and become a healer, one day. So, it worries me when I hear people say that we must leave the dead people alone because we are disturbing them, when in actual fact it is them (the dead) who come back and touch our lives, asking for help.
People say that when we are doing ancestral rituals we are praying to the demons but it puzzles me when that same demons ask us to pray for the people and provide healing to the troubled souls, here and on the next plane.
Yes, when the ancestors first approach you, they are in an angry state because they are caught in between worlds. Their problem is that they are carrying with them powers which are no longer needed in the kingdom of God. They then contact us so that we can use these powers here on earth to do good and help one another. Once they are cleansed and happy they operate as guardian angels and move on to the next form of life in the kingdom of God. All ancestors who come back to disturb peoples’ lives they complain about one thing, being stuck on their way back to the source(God) They complain that there are things which are holding them back and they want us to cleanse and pray for them so that they can move forward and rejoice in eternal happiness.
People say we are praying to the demons and yet the same demons ask us to help other people with these powers here on earth. They ask us to take care of our children and teach them to love and not to destroy that which God has created with love. They ask us to teach people that God requires us all to fill our hearts with love and not to judge anybody because we are all just humans trying to unsolved the mystery of life. Our ancestors ask us to open peoples’ eyes, hearts and minds in order to find that love and peace that we all seek here on earth.
I wish I could go on further and talk about the same people who say we are praying to demons and talk about all the ungodly things that they do in return while they claim to be children of God but that would be judging, so I will just leave it at that…
Ancestors are a power that comes form the souls of those who have departed. This powers come back to earth and disturb the lives of their loved ones if the person who died had unfinished business here on earth. The reason why they come back could be because they are carrying with them healing powers which are no longer needed in the kingdom of God, they have unresolved issues of family feuds and sins that are holding back or they left too quickly through an accident thus their souls are stuck in between worlds…etc-the list is endless for them to come back and “touch” the lives of those who are living.
They have an ability to come back and touch our lives because they are now living in a spirit form, which takes a form of an energy. This energy has the power to alter our lives by playing games with our mind to an extant that it culminates to even physical manifestation on the body.
I believe that we have not done enough studies when it come to ancestors, what they are, their powers, and what they are actually not. Ancestors are a power that is so close to our God almighty that it requires nothing but purity in our hearts. -This is the reason why we always emphasis the process of cleansing ones mind, body and soul before we even begin to start on this path. This is also the reason why we discourage the usage of bad muti when it comes to cleansing of the ancestors. By bad muti, I mean that muti which seeks to change the future or alter the lives of others people without their concern. That muti which is made out of that which is toxic and destructive on earth. Bad muti is the root cause of all evils here on earth as it promises people miracles but delivers nothing at the end of the day. We must also remember that there is also magic which tends to mislead people out there…
There are ancestors who are stuck because they did bad things while they were still alive so, when they come back they want to be cleansed off and be released so that they can move forward on their journey of a newly found form of life. These ancestors requires us to do good in order to balance out the energies thus setting them free. In order words, they want us to balance out the karmic energy that surrounds them and affecting us at the same time so that they can rejoice, and we can find peace here on earth… “think about it”
Ancestors are powerful when used to do good and can provide a sense of peace to a troubled soul. Ancestors are a power that forms a part of a persons’ aura, whether one recognizes them or not.